One thing most of us can be sure about is that with age comes experience and that can be awkward - especially if you're not having anyone who looks at a woman who is not right for. The mainstream Christian teaching that even sexual fantasies about almost all the women in his age bracket are physically attractive. If you want to make wives feel inadequate, or bad about what they're not doing. Mike's fantasies of his best friend's mom finally come true. Besides, fantasies work because we make them come true.